Culture Shock
Issues for International Movers
Most
international movers are aware that a
move to a new country is not over with a new
house and unpacking of possessions. These
processes are actually the pro-active
factors which let your mind not hover around
too much. The focused activity, once over,
gives rise to other issues which might make
it difficult for international movers to
settle in immediately. A new house though
exciting is an indication of old things and
routines ending. This is even more so when
the country one has moved to have a
different language. When the language
differs, a feeling of alienation might arise
leading to what is called a ‘culture shock’.
There are ways to deal with this as much as
possible. International
movers are aware
that any kind of change causes uncertainty
and anxiety so the best thing is to be
prepared for the unknown. Nowadays when the
onslaught of the internet one can easily
find a lot of information about the place
one is moving to. Asking around and
developing contacts before you reach the new
country is extremely sensible. This allows
international movers to have a feel for the
place and have some strange factors
explained instead of being completely in the
dark. The first thing to do once one moves,
is to establish a routine. For an
international mover working in a regular
office, this might be easier. There is a
certain target in mind for work and that
occupies the mind. In the constricted office
environment, there would be more chances to
make friends and at least see the same faces
on a regular basis as also work related
targets. However, for a person who would not
be working, this is more stressful and a
feeling of isolation is highly likely.
Simple activities such as shopping for
groceries might take on a whole new meaning
since the packaging, names of vegetables,
products might be totally different. There
are no familiar faces, no usual TV shows,
etc. Some international movers would have a
lot of free time if they have moved with
their husbands to a new country. Taking on
part time jobs would be ideal since they
would be busy for at least part of the day
and feel good about contributing to the
household income. Adults manage with changes
somehow but children are the ones who might
experience maximum anxiety and a feeling of
being uprooted.
Children at such times tend to get more
dependent on parents who on their part
should be supportive and provide love and
reassurance. Young children would miss their
school and friends and can get lonely. More
intense is the experience for teenagers
since they are in a strange in-between stage
of adolescence with a high need to be
accepted by their peers which might be tough
in a
new school and neighborhood. Again,
preparing them for the move is a
responsibility of the international mover.
They must be aware of the factors for the
move and attempts must be made to get them
excited about the new adventure.
International movers should involve their
children in the research process so they
know as much as the parent about what to
expect. Reading up on the new country is the
best kind of education. Taking a part of
their old home is equally important.
International movers can gift their kids
with collages or books in which they can
store their memories.
Thus, everyone involved in the international
mover's journey can look forward to it
without getting too worried about the new
changes to come. |